Creative Mommas! I need your help!?

I am having a really tough time picturing the black/red scheme with the lavender. I absolutely love the cake, but you will probably want to go with a white background if your main theme is ladybugs. I think the cake would look adorable with red and black polka dots on it. Make it easy on yourself, girl! If you know you want to do ladybugs, just stick with red and black and don't try to fit in the lavender. If you do decide you really want to use lavender, then I would scrap the idea of using red and black decorations and just stick with spring colors like lavender, yellow, light green etc. The ladybugs would just be an accent on the cake, and maybe you could make some ladybug favors or little decorations to go on the table. That cake and dress are absolutely precious, though. It's photos like those that make me wish I could have at least ONE girl!